Session1: Text – Heb. 13:4: #prayerFocus – Romantic relationship1
There are so many romantic relationships which are in limbo because one is plagued by indecision.
If you have been dating for over two years and yet no date has been fixed for marriage: Beloved, you are dealing with an indecisive, confused, dishonest and unfaithful person. He/she is taking advantage of you.
It’s worse if your partner is already enjoying marital privileges-cohabiting.
Bible says “Let marriage be held in honor among all.” Heb 13:4. Marriage is a Divine institution and you honor God in your marital aspirations by your purity.
If you have dishonored God who ordained marriage by preempting your marriage vows, there is need to repent.
In my 25 years as a spiritual warrior, I have observed that those who engage in premarital sexual relationship have a hard time when they eventually get married.
There will be so much fighting and disagreement to make you wonder why they even go got married.
That happened because premarital sex open doors for acute Demonization-finances, health and other important factors in life will be adversely affected.
However, when the couple take responsibility and ask forgiveness for dishonoring God, their marriage get healed and they enjoy it.
In line with our prayer theme for this season ending, we seek perfection in our romantic relationships-all stalemate must end today in Christ glorious name.
Let God as the Monarch 👑 of the universe intervene in this aspect of your life. Let God’s grace speak on our behalf to either bring clarity to the confused partner, so that marriage will result.
Or let the emotional soul tie be severed and a replacement birthed for the new season, if the other partner is not ready to commit.
Either way, the stalement must end.
You can’t carryover such indecision to your new season. Enough already.
If you do not make progress, you will vegetate. After which, death is imminent. Why die prematurely because someone wants to eat their cake 🎂 and have it.
I hear you say perhaps demons have been influencing your partners indecision. Cast out the demons and affirm God’s Word in your life.
However, remember that God does not take forever to answer prayers.
What you allow is what will continue. Today, you have take a stand to either continue to be the emotional sufferer or the liberated or delivered.
You really need to go forward.
Recently, a dear lady thought her relationship with a guy she had known for over 5years was going forward.
However, after 2years of accepting nonsensical excuses from the guy, hoping to upgrade to fit his specifications, she listened to Godly counsel and ended the alliance.
A big burden was lifted and she is going forward as we pray for God to perfect her romantic life. She desires marriage but not to someone who does not know what he wants.
Over the years, he had disrespected her. I pointed out that it would get worse after marriage.
And the last straw was when she pointed out how inconsistent and inconsiderate he has been over the years, and he sent her laughing 😂 emojis. It was then she concluded that he was mocking her.
I had stopped giving her unsolicited advise like forever. Until she contacted me when realization hit her. I’m sharing this here, with her permission.
People of God please wisen up. God’s Word says those who are sons of God are led by the Spirit of God. Your spirit is what got born again not your emotions, feelings etc.
Feelings or emotions can never give you accurate facts about a situation because they have to be disciplined to conform to God’s will, through daily intake of God’s Word. Besides which, they are easily influenced by information from our physical senses.
Therefore, guard your heart and not yield to your emotions. Be led by the Spirit of God.
Because when you are emotionally involved or dependent, it becomes increasingly difficult to move on.
I have another testimony from a dear child of God. She was dating a guy and both were sure they have conviction in the spirit that they are to be married.
However, she had doubts based on certain character traits she had observed. Anyways, 2 other ministers confirmed it for her.
Based on her having a check in the spirit, I counseled her to have an open mind. 3 months into the relationship, another guy made his intention known to her. Coincidentally, 3months before, was when he had received his own confirmation, but was praying for her to be ready for his proposal.
And that was the precise time the devil came in with a counterfeit. Incase you do not understand, ‘satan’ is in the business of counterfeiting the kingdom of God.
When he sees a blessing coming, he quickly counterfeits it, send it your way, in order to confuse, kill-joy and frustrate the divine destiny of the individual he is targeting.
Anyways, that ruse failed with this dear lady, because she was sensitive in the Spirit.
God’s Word says every good and perfect gifts come from God. Which means every good and imperfect gift is the handiwork of the devil.
Let that be a guiding principle for you. “Whatever is good and perfect comes down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow.“ – James 1 :17, NLT.
When the new guy came to her, he told her about his prayers for a wife and how God led him to her.
He asked for the phone number of her pastor so that he can make his intention known.
Upfront, the guy laid his heart bare and told us about his records etc. Which we were able to confirm.
That’s how far I’m going with that story anyways. The point I’m making is that, it doesn’t take a guy or gal months or years to know who to marry. So stop allowing yourself to be fooled and used.
Your desire to be married is a good thing. It is better to marry than to burn with passion.
However, just because you have a strong desire to be married, does not make you the object someone uses to gratify his /her basest instincts.
You are a child of God and God knows that it is not good for you to be alone. He understands your need for companionship-he formulated it into your being, for He is your creator and Father.
So let us pray and deactivate all the evils that ‘satan’ put in place, to frustrate your marriage goals.
*Thank God for your uniqueness-your womanhood, manhood and Humanity.
*You need to repent of every way you have dishonored God’s ideal of marriage through premarital sex.
*When Joseph found Mary with child, he wanted to put her away quietly without jeopardizing her life. However, by Divine intervention, Joseph was restrained.
Ask God to judge between you and your current partner: this is the time you present your case to God. Pour your heart out to Him and ask Him to perfect all that concerns your marital goals.
*#Declare from your heart that an end has come to worthless promises, assumptions and presumptions. Mean and wicked persons are separated from you.
I am a child of God and the accepted in the Beloved: I’m fully yielded to the leading, guidance and control of the Holy Spirit.
I no longer attract users, abusers, and the wrong kind of persons. For God’s fire of attraction and spirit of acceptance is at work in me.
God’s truth and wisdom are the forces of my life, propelling me from glory to glory as I walk in the paths prearranged for me.
I’m born of the Spirit, and I’m fully yielded to His leading, guidance and control; His truth and wisdom are propelling me towards God’s perfect will for my life.
Everything that belongs to me is blessed and wonderful.
I refuse to be dominated by the forces of darkness and to live like a second class citizen. I am beautiful, graced, elegant and endowed with supernatural favors.
I dominate my environment and subdue all the forces of evil assigned to frustrate my marital goals.
No demon, ancestral yokes, curses or satanic pacts can stop my marriage in this new season for Christ has redeemed me and ridded me of all the handwriting of ordinances that were contrary to my success, establishment, prosperity and marriage.
I reign over late marriage, sequences of disappointments, jinxed relationships, infidelity, deceit, fault – finding, and all related evils that plagued my desire to be married!
I am more than a conqueror through Christ Jesus! The lines are fallen to me in pleasant places, I have a goodly heritage. Hallelujah!
I enter into a God ordained relation that outcomes in marriage. My marriage is blessed and a model of the love between Christ and His Bride the Church for whom He died for.
I am loved, appreciated and respected by my spouse and together we honor God and win souls to God’s kingdom by our marriage, in Christ matchless name.
*Spend some time to pray in tongues and worship.
From #theWatchman Hephzibah Christly